Human relationship is unique and complicated. Nobody really understand the chemistry behind it.
It is funny to learn that in my company there are these two guys who can't stand each other's presence but have to work together. The sound of it indicates the wrong mixture of chemicals. These two guys hence split their working hour like this - day shift and night shift. Often enough they don't have an overlapping period for handover because they couldn't stand each other. Also they don't bother to write a handover note. Simply because they don't even want to have any kind of interaction with one another??? That I wouldn't know.
Human relationship is complicated. Sometimes we like a person at the first sight. Sometimes we grow to like a person. It takes time to see a person's good side. Sometimes we dislike a person at the first sight. Some people have hated one another no matter how long they've known each other but circumstances 'bind' them together. There are many more examples but I'm not going into that detail :-p
If people dislike each other, it's because the auras do not match with each other, according to one GURU i met long time ago. Many more 'explanation' to why two persons dislike each other.
To me, life is short. I believe it's a complete waste of time to engage in dislike, hatred and all sort of negative thoughts / energy. We should channel our energy to do things that is going to be beneficial to our lives. Do something good for our family, parents, siblings, friends and even people that we do not know if possible. Exercise to make us fresh and energetic. Have good diet so that we do not 'balloon' up and torture our body. Have a good financial planning to have at least a emergency fund when we need it. Read more books to be more intelligent and intellectual. Travel to broaden our horizon. Invest wisely. Decorate house make it at least a livable place (HAHAHAHA!!!!!!). Donation to help the needy. Just enjoy every moment of our lives. It's too short.
Instead of playing games and politics with one another while we need to face each other everyday to make a living? Well well well, better sort that out before everyone goes crazy... hahaha... In a blink of an eyes, we would become old. When the time comes, perhaps we would be laughing at ourselves why waste time and energy on all these negative 'problems'.
Perhaps we would think ai ya, I should have done this, I should have done that...
I think, we live the moment, make full use of it, and most importantly, enjoy it :-) Yesterday is history, tomorrow is unknown. Now is the best time !!!
It is funny to learn that in my company there are these two guys who can't stand each other's presence but have to work together. The sound of it indicates the wrong mixture of chemicals. These two guys hence split their working hour like this - day shift and night shift. Often enough they don't have an overlapping period for handover because they couldn't stand each other. Also they don't bother to write a handover note. Simply because they don't even want to have any kind of interaction with one another??? That I wouldn't know.
Human relationship is complicated. Sometimes we like a person at the first sight. Sometimes we grow to like a person. It takes time to see a person's good side. Sometimes we dislike a person at the first sight. Some people have hated one another no matter how long they've known each other but circumstances 'bind' them together. There are many more examples but I'm not going into that detail :-p
If people dislike each other, it's because the auras do not match with each other, according to one GURU i met long time ago. Many more 'explanation' to why two persons dislike each other.
To me, life is short. I believe it's a complete waste of time to engage in dislike, hatred and all sort of negative thoughts / energy. We should channel our energy to do things that is going to be beneficial to our lives. Do something good for our family, parents, siblings, friends and even people that we do not know if possible. Exercise to make us fresh and energetic. Have good diet so that we do not 'balloon' up and torture our body. Have a good financial planning to have at least a emergency fund when we need it. Read more books to be more intelligent and intellectual. Travel to broaden our horizon. Invest wisely. Decorate house make it at least a livable place (HAHAHAHA!!!!!!). Donation to help the needy. Just enjoy every moment of our lives. It's too short.
Instead of playing games and politics with one another while we need to face each other everyday to make a living? Well well well, better sort that out before everyone goes crazy... hahaha... In a blink of an eyes, we would become old. When the time comes, perhaps we would be laughing at ourselves why waste time and energy on all these negative 'problems'.
Perhaps we would think ai ya, I should have done this, I should have done that...
I think, we live the moment, make full use of it, and most importantly, enjoy it :-) Yesterday is history, tomorrow is unknown. Now is the best time !!!
2 comments:
Inspiring post. I agree that life is too short to dwell in negativity but sometimes people can't help it or they just don't bother.
THAT's why we've gotta get ourself out of negativity
those we dislike, for whatever reason, it's a valid reason to us..
why try to tolerate, try to put up, where you know neither one of us will change, it'll just bring us all down the drain, if we try to linger longer..
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