Oh Yeah !!!

Yesterday was a nice and satisfactory day for me. Reason being I finally exploded and expressed what I kept for sooooo long to a I would say self-centered selfish individual...

The war of words happened when I met this individual on Friday evening. End of our casual pretentious conversation I said keep in touch. The very next morning I received a sms that got my anger fired up so much that if transform the anger to fire it could burn down Twin Tower. This sms said: "You mentioned keep in touch, I sms you that day but you didn't reply. Did you know and mean what you said? If you forgot to reply I'll forgive you."

I replied...

SMS 1: Get hold of yourself. I dont live life to reply all your sms. I have my life to live and so have you. You are a matured women (or maybe I'm very wrong) you stop dwelling in this stupid crazy obsession. Keep in touch doesn't mean I need to call you every single day and reply all your sms like boyfriend you control. I dont need to seek your forgiveness, this is me, understand it and get over with your obsession and possessiveness. Sort out what's in your head, get it straight.

Then got another sms, which I've forgotten what it was about... My reply:

SMS 2: Yup busy just reached home. No need explanation no misunderstood as long as you speak truthfully and not being overly sensitive. We're not God who can answer all your wishes. We're only human being. We dont tell you our problems doesn't mean we dont have any. You got to understand as a human being. Please show me little bit of your wisdom. You love the company, good for you, I hope you'll shine under others' leadership. I can't help you no more as I run out of gas.

Then she replied something like my perception about her is not true at all (If not true she should be jumping up and down now not only smsing ;-)) and she lost respect when I said somehting... Can't remember as usual as I cannot remember all the negative things...

My reply:

SMS 3: Hahaha. As a friend let me open up your mind, otherwise will be too sad. Have you ever thought that perhaps I dont have another group? Furthermore, your group is most important to you, not mine. I've never asked what my 'superior' can do for me but what I can do for my group. That's the biggest different between you and me. Anyway, you won't understand coz you're self-centered. Doesn't matter to me at all whether you respect me or not. I only feel sad for you but I do hope this sms helps you open up your mind. All the best for whatever you undertake in the future. Ciao.

End of story. This story 'started' way back, few years ago... I'm lazy to go back time and write it all down... not worth it at all from my point of view... I've forgotten most of it already anyway...

I've learned a lot dealing with this crazy derranged individual. Most importantly, I know how to handle this type of person if I ever meet one again in my life. Gosh I hope not. Hahaha.

Things I learned: Honest to ourselves and others... Respect is earned but not asked for... First of all we have to respect ourselves... Improve ourselves from time to time by observation, listening, reading and seeking advice... Must be clear of what we do, otherwise we'll be lost in life... Don't expect too much from others, but expect from ourselves what we can do for others... I always look down on back-stabbing low-life, and will never change... We can be nice, but not to those who don't appreciate our kindness so we have to be hard and firm with them, dont need to give face... and etc etc... will add more when I have more inspiration... hahahaha...

Alright, enough for today :-D